Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
The discourse around liking pictures while in a relationship is exactly why so many women are becoming emotionally detached from dating. Too many ppl normalize behavior that keeps one foot in single life while pretending to not be driven by lust & constant access to other women
“His mind isn’t made up just yet” Girl it was made up when he decided he was okay with the possibility of you leaving after choosing Clarke. #loveislandsusa#loveisland