Dear @aedcelectricity Can you explain to me why my tariff is so high on meter?
I'm on band A and I just realized a recharge of 1000naira is just 2.2 units while band D recharge for 1000naira is about 26 units. If you claim it's because you supply 24hrs light, the question is how
Dear @aedcelectricity Can you explain to me why my tariff is so high on meter?
I'm on band A and I just realized a recharge of 1000naira is just 2.2 units while band D recharge for 1000naira is about 26 units. If you claim it's because you supply 24hrs light, the question is how
does that affects my meter units ?
please give me response or direct me to someone who can solve these problem.
when meter was not in use , it's agreed I have 24hrs light and would pay high electricity bills more than any other Band(B,C,D) but I don't know why my units are
A boy doesn't become a man, until he starts to see his mother the way his father sees her.
Your mother is not the same as your father's wife. Your real mother is your father's wife.
End.
married under 25years and was giving 80% of his salary to her but the girl refused to stay in the marriage and had the guts to tell them she's still young and can still get married .
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@jon_d_doee made a post here advising young men to marry girls below 25years and a lot of you seem not to believe and some people even drag him . I decide to share it with a woman who's married about 30years and she said what Agba said is True .
she even said her younger brother
Dear young women that do not mind getting married to yahoo boys.
Let me tell you something.
Please be prepared to stay in that marriage with your kids, when your husband starts to suffer from the consequences of his misdeeds.
Enjoy now, but you shall suffer later.
End.
God ordained marriage, yes.
But not everyone will or should get married.
What fuels marriage is money.
And it's largely hinged on the man.
If the man that you are dating right now is not showing you any true potential to provide financially in marriage, please do not get married to him.
As a woman, you'd suffer in that marriage if you get married to a lazy man.
Or if you get married to a man that is just struggling to get by.
And you won't be able to function properly as either a mother or a wife.
The only way that you'd be able to function properly, is if your husband takes away the burden of provision from you.
Your heart would be heavy if you heard the cries of hunger from your children.
And your husband would be there, doing nothing about it.
The reason I am saying this is because a lot of wives and mothers are living in regret. They constantly call for financial help from family and friends so that they can feed their children.
But they have husbands.
Yesterday, I posted a video of a man and his wife publicly embarrassing themselves.
The wife was screaming that she pays the school fees, she feeds the kids, she does this and that, and her husband was shamelessly standing there, replying to her.
If you watched the video to the end, you would have heard the man wishing that his wife would die before him.
That is why I keep telling you women about the dangers of enabling a man, or getting married to a man who hasn't proven to you that he's willing or capable of stepping into that role as a father and husband.
He resents his wife, but he's eating her food.
He takes his wife's money, but he wishes her dead.
His wife is paying the school fees for the kids, but he's angry and wishes to ruin the business that provides her the money to do those things.
Those ones are the ones that decided to wash their dirty linens in the public.
There are thousands of homes like that.
And I am pretty sure that some of you married women reading this are experiencing same.
A man doesn't have to be rich before he marries a wife, but he must be ready to take up the financial responsibilities of his household.
That is how he must start.
He must do this with kindness & sacrifice, and with God on his side.
The wife must see that he has been able to show that he's the head of the home.
Now, this is where I want to land.
There are married men who have maintained this role for many years in their marriage, until things became tough financially.
That's life and it happens. And when this happens, it affords the man the opportunity to see who he is truly married to.
Would his wife change in her behavior towards him because she's genuinely concerned about him, or would she change because she is no longer interested in the marriage?
Will she step into his role temporarily as a support, or would she abandon him to his fate?
Whichever one it is, your prayer as a man is that God may continue to show you mercy and keep you in good health so that you'll continue to be the provider as much as you can.
Because once money is lacking, that marriage will never be the same.
Even if you're married to a good wife.
AJD.