I see a lot of people say this and I genuinely wonder, if you’re unable to fully commit during this time why do you think it will ever end in marriage?
Most of you are boring as a result of low info retention. And you don’t like when people talk about “smart things” because you don’t have the brain capacity to keep up. So you call them boring to make yourself feel better about how stupid you really felt in that moment.
One of the biggest indices of maturity is allowing good things to happen to you without requiring the dopamine hit you get from telling people about it. It stops you from tying self-worth to how many good things you've experienced. You can win and not require validation for it.