Especially women. We can wake up one day & all our rights will be taken away on a whim but never for men. The Afghan women went to bed one night & woke up the next day as slaves in their own homes & it haunts me everyday.
Girl to girl: study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the women before you, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles.
refuse to be a victim of generational curses ❤️
that moment when you are studying the Word of God, and all of a sudden the Holy Spirit give you a revelation of a subject you’ve never understood all your life.
South Africa is a constitutional republic, not a monarchy. No king, politician, activist or NGO gets to tell South Africans they cannot demand the enforcement of immigration laws. The issue of illegal immigration affects the entire country, and citizens have every right to speak on it regardless of who gets offended.
@ghanaboynie This is how some foreigners behave when authorities try to do their job in South Africa 🇿🇦
South Africans have been watching their country being destroyed , arrogance , disrespect, insults.
We don’t have another country to run to , this is our home
“The traditional man wants a woman 2be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women.”He's like an exotic bird collector, "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage” - Trevor Noah Born a Crime
for me, it was a realisation.
i had already survived every man i was convinced i wouldn’t survive. every relationship that felt like my entire world, i got through it. i was fine.
then i built my world around someone new, and that ended too, and i was fine again.
and eventually something clicked like, there will always be another man willing to become my whole world if i let him. which means the scarcity i kept feeling was never real. i manufactured it every time by treating each one like he was the last.
so i realised, you don’t decenter men by deciding they’re not worth it. you decenter them the moment you realise you were always going to be okay without them. and that’s the point i reached.