If a man goes abroad to earn money for his family, it's a problem.
If he stays behind and takes a pay cut, that's a problem too.
When it comes to marriage, there are zero excuses. Even if your spouse is gone for years, you are expected to remain faithful because marriage is a commitment and covenant.
If you can't deal with the temptation of being horny, then get a divorce and sleep around without fear.
We're the only race that depends on the hairs of people from other races, and contact lenses to match the colour of their eyes, to feel good about ourselves.
It's the biggest pointer to the fact that we're indeed an inferior race sitting at the bottom of the race chain.
The porn addicted 90s milenial/genz man really thinks he can wife a slut to do that "you can see but you can't touch" gimmick in 2026.
Nigga they will fuck your wife mercilessly and return her back to your loser ass.
In a healthy relationship, gifts should generally be given out of affection, celebration, or generosity, not because one person believes she is automatically owed them.
Have her sit astride you in bed. Flip her head over your shoulder and rest her head on your shoulder. Kiss her neck and lips as you stroke. To stroke, relax your fingers and move them in a strumming motion over the clit. Up and down, then anti-clockwise.
Pay attention to which motion gets her best reaction and maintain the rhythm until she is out of breath. You're welcome
There will never come a time when you stop feeling fondness for women as a man.
The reason is twofold:
You are part of the male species burdened with the biological imperative to reproduce.
Two, you were raised by a woman, and so at your most malleable developmental loop, developed a desire to please her in order to survive.
What experience does for a man is not to override these base instincts, but to cognitively superimpose on them.
You acknowledge that you like women, as every healthy man should,
But that you are not solely a slave to your biological desires, in transcending them cognitively when necessary.
That you believe you haven’t yet built sufficient ruthlessness tells me you haven’t suffered enough (yet).
The solution to maternal blue pill conditioning is constant contact with reality sufficient to trigger override.
That is to say in simpler terms, (quite ironically) that the solution to stop suffering with women, is to suffer more with them.
It is not less experience, but more experience.
You need to taste female ruthlessness deep in the core of your soul till you know ontologically that you will never tolerate it again.
I hope you can now understand why I've been saying a woman is first a woman before anything else.
Rich or Poor. Their propensities are distinctively perculiar.
Any other thing is internet fanfiction.
Men who understand nothing about female nature saying Cardi B would never date Nigerian goalkeeper Nwadi Okoye because he earns less
This is what the average man doesn't, pretty privilege for men exist too. He can date her easily, he has the looks, women are very much attracted to handsome men
The only reason why you believe women want men with money is because majority of men don't have looks, so money is the only card they can play. But handsome men live in their own world, they're actually spoiled by women
Women want them inside them. They want to be seen with them. They want to have cute babies with them.
Yes she may not date him, but she can definitely sleep with him, just to get a taste. The same way we men lust over beautiful women, is the same way women lust over handsome men
Lesson: Women bill men they don't find attractive and give it freely to men they find attractive
Stop telling a woman to build with you. Just make your intentions known and let her decide if she wants to date you or not. The whole point of a relationship is to do life togther - regardless of your financial standing.
He is sounding apologetic like he is sorry for being broke and wanting to date her. Is she not broke too?
- Stay unmarried and enjoy a different variety of woman every week
Nigerians: "You will not find a wife and settle down? Your mates are married"
- Acquire a wife while enjoying a different flavour of woman every week
Nigerians: "If you were not ready to stick with one woman, why did you get married?"
Damned if you do. Damned if you don't
None at all.
Marriage is clearly another tool of patriarchal oppression of women and this is why men should stop marrying women.
Date them, and after a few months, years or decades, switch to another woman.
Stop oppressing women with marriage!