If you love someone, you tell them. Even if you're scared that it's not the right thing. Even if you're scared that it'll cause problems. Even if you're scared that it will burn your life to the ground, you say it, & you say it loud & you go from there.
I hate thinking “okay let me show less love” “let me not care so much” I HATE THAT FEELING. I should never have to feel that way. my purest form is loving hard and caring hard and nurturing hard, those are not negatives.