A man will never do something bad and be allowed to take responsibility like a human being, a woman must be roped in to be the reason the man did what he did!
Dear brothers,
Do your Nikkah in a masjid, and host a simple walima with family relatives, friends, neighbours and poor people. Save money for Hajj and upgrade your family expenses etc.
Trust me no one cares about your expensive wedding, buffet, tulips and tuxedos.
@Plantainpappy I would like to call Tscotts attention to something he said. The family he spoke of produced confused kids, meaning we are only considering the partners’ lives and not that of the kids they produce?