Tolerating always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. Likes And eventually, the bill comes due.
That’s why you gotta just leave after you find out about cheating. Not all but most ppl never fully forgive that shit even if they decide to stay. The trust is never fully restored. The anger never fully leaves. The bitterness is still in the back of your mind. And the resentment sits heavy. That shit changes you, and you are not the same person they use to love and you can’t treat them like the same person you loved before you found out they didn’t love you enough to stay faithful.