I HAD MY FIRST JOB BEFORE I COULD EVEN GET A DRIVER'S LICENSE. SO FORGIVE ME IF I STRUGGLE TO UNDERSTAND GROWN ADULTS WHO REFUSE TO WORK AND STILL EXPECT HANDOUTS.
can't be submissive to a man that doesn't make you feel safe enough to be you. you're constantly in defense mode, your energy is withdrawn, your mind is anxious about what will happen next. there's no compliant heart in that environment, you just grow more indifferent with time
If a woman acts like a baby in a relationship it means that she's with a MAN. And if a woman acts like a mother in a relationship, it means she's with a BOY.
Girl to girl: It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.
Men are naturally selfish and that's why nothing holds them back, Not love, not marriage, not family! Nothing! That selfishness is what i want us to learn my dear ladies, Please be selfish and stay selfish. You're not a rehabilitation center for emotionally unavailable men !!
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. even when things get tough between us he won't give up and tries >
Marry a MAN that loves you enough to care about how his actions will effect your feelings & stop settling for immature BOYS that think you are supposed to love them after all the trauma they put you through. A real MAN knows his woman's happiness is key to a happy relationship.