I think people forget that for someone to fumble/miss out, you have to take into account how much value they placed on you in the first place. Have you ever missed a penny you lost? No, no you have not. You are worth the penny in that situation
I am a woman
I like sex. No I LOVE sex
My friends like sex
Yay being an adult
But Im pushing 40. I cannot befriend someone being reckless with their sexual health, that is going to cause issues I don’t want to deal with!
I love that I follow people who are experts in their fields
Im smart, but Ion know everything naturally. Its good that others can explain better what Im trying to get at
@blaaksuedepumps I had a man who wanted me to give him head SOOOOOOO BAD. I mean damn near begging.
I was not going for it. We gone be (super) vanilla and Ima head out! Dont like it, oh well!
Thank you for explaining this in depth.
I don’t like this line of thinking, and alot of men have it.
This is why women should be careful in casual situations. Only do what YOU’RE comfortable with, not what he wants 🫣
@ItsJanata The issue isn't that he has different sexual preferences with different partners. It's that he appears to be assigning women different levels of respect based on their perceived sexual roles. He is instilling and perpetuating the Madonna-Whore Complex
@ItsJanata The issue isn't that he has different sexual preferences with different partners. It's that he appears to be assigning women different levels of respect based on their perceived sexual roles. He is instilling and perpetuating the Madonna-Whore Complex
Chile
Im all for abortions, do what you gotta do.
The man did you dirty, which is why they went that route cool…just to go back fuckin him WITHOUT protection?!
Them type of reckless decisions causes other issues in the friendship, and my patience is very limited at my big age now 😭
Devils advocate here,
So what happens if you meet a woman that you really like, you make her your gf or wife….but she likes non vanilla sex sometimes
What you gone do then?
@ItsJanata Because I deem those acts disrespectful and I perform them with women who ask me to “disrespect them”. But I view my woman in a very high regard, so I couldn’t see myself disrespecting her at all.