"I'm proud of you"
Being loved loudly
"Let's figure this out"
"I saw this and thought of you"
"Everything is going to be fine"
"I got you this cause I know you'd like it"
"You've talked about this, let's work on it"
"What can I do to make me a better person for you"
i believe in re-reading and re-watching your favourite books & movies at different stages of your life. the plot never changes, but your perspective does.
Donโt let the government hoodwink you. They absolutely owe you functioning systems, clean water, healthcare, security, housing, job opportunities, and basic human dignity. It is within their constitutional mandate; that is literally their core purpose and duty.
"You can't be a Christian and be a feminist" fam I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me, including ignoring you and your attempt to use the Bible says to manipulate me.
I think the problem is many of you are scared of being alone.
Firstly admit that you can end up alone, once you have made good terms with it then, you can be voluntarily single untill you find someone ready to give 100% like you.
That fear you have, find a way to strangle it.
Iโm an elder millennial. Iโm never letting go of my emotional support denim jacket, gold hoop earrings, boomerang drink videos, 90s R&B, side parts, and peace signs in my pics. Fight me.
Two teachers killed, others still in captive, about 45 students still in the den of the kidnappers/terrorists , this is day 3, no news yet from the Presidency.
Sighs
If youโre no longer interested in someone, let them know. Slowly distancing yourself, ignoring calls, and giving half-hearted responses really hurt more than simply being honest and upfront.
I live in an apartment that I rent. If I wanted to invite a Vampire into my home, would I be able to? Or would he have to go through my landlord, the legal owner, in order to enter?
I am Nigerian, and right now my dream is bigger than me.
Only about 4.5% of medical literature globally are represented on Black skin.
That means millions of Black patients are learning from systems that barely look like them. Medical students study diseases on skin tones that are not their own. Doctors are trained with visual references that often fail Black bodies.
That gap has consequences.
So I am deciding to build towards changing it.
Iโm starting with a book.
But the larger vision is far beyond that. I want to help build software and medical visualization tools that make Black medical representation impossible to ignore.
This is not just about diversity aesthetics, this is about accuracy, education, visibility and better healthcare outcomes.
One day, I want a Black child studying medicine anywhere on earth to see themselves fully represented in what they learn.
And I believe we can build that future.