I don't think your parents should meet your partner till you know this is the person you actually want to settle down with and get married to. I'm so big on that. I can't bring just ANYBODY to my parents.
a girl on tiktok said “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace." and it hits me hard.
my red flag is that if you don’t talk to me, i won’t talk to you either. but not because i don’t want to talk to you but because i think if you don’t want to talk to me, i should give you space so i don’t bother you.
i think my 🚩 is that, I never know how to talk about my feelings. I talk to myself in my head a lot about how I feel & I explain it so well, but getting it to actually come out my mouth is so hard.