some people will only reach a level of understanding with you only when they are able to reach a level of understanding with themselves, and till then, you are not required to continue creating space for them to consistently misunderstand you.
becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth & decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you’re damaging your mind, body & spirit.
The relationship you have with yourself is the most complicated because you can’t walk away from you. You have to forgive every mistake. You have to deal with every flaw. You have to find a way to love you even when you’re disgusted with you.
the blackout tuesday does NOT mean to simply post a black picture and leave social media for the day. It means to stop promoting your own stuff for 24 hours, and instead amplify the voices & projects of Black creators, writers, directors, activists and more. pass it on.