how your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
Narcissists never apologize, they just rewrite the story to make themselves the victim. They’ll break you, then act broken. They’ll hurt you, then say you’re too sensitive.
Accountability isn’t in their vocabulary, only blame, projection, and manipulation.
As an American citizen it is intensely offensive to me that we would spend this kind of money on Greenland when we don’t have universal healthcare, mandatory maternity leave, good public schools or any sort of social services.
i hate when people try to gaslight me into thinking i’m overreacting over a certain situation, when in reality, my instincts were right from the start.
Once l've addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, I stop caring. It's above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.
I think my biggest takeaway from this year is that God listens. He pays attention. He may not give you an answer in 6 hours or 6 months, but when he does, he answers all the parts. He may be quiet sometimes but he’s only bidding His time. He’s never ignoring you.
biggest lesson i learned this year is no matter how good you are to people if they don’t want to do right by you they just won’t .. no matter what you do so don’t continuously prove your a good person.