I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
getting your life together requires a level of honesty you can’t even imagine. there’s nothing easy about realizing you’re the one that’s been holding you back this whole time.
I can confirm that if you spend a lot of time on social media, you will gradually lose the ability or interest to read books for long. Heightened exposure to social media reduces your ability to focus.