Two givers in a relationship looks like
• He paid for her nails so she paid for his next 2 cuts
• She made the list, he bought the groceries and brought them inside, she put them away.
• She cooked, he cleaned.
• She bought him cologne so he sent her on a Spa Day
• He covered every bill so she booked the trip
• She bought him Js so he filled her tank/detailed the car
It's not about going 50/50 on expenses. It’s about going 100/100 in life. You pour into me, I pour into you. You prioritize me, I prioritize you. It’s really that simple when you know a person has your back!
In case u weren't raised correctly. it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether ppl want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes wat he gives & reflects it. When a man leads w clarity, love, & respect, it creates a space where a woman feel safe, soft & secure. Viceversa, when he leads w confusion, mixed signals, & inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes unsure, emotionally exhausted
Girls … I understood why they advise us to get married and have kids before 25. Because after that, our brain starts working, and the decision won’t seem so reasonable anymore.
The issue with having close relations with men, no matter how progressive they are, at some point they’ll remind you that they’re men 🙂↔️. Truly to love men is to accept being disappointed by them.