I've accidentally spent my life making sure everyone else around me feels comfortable, only to realize that I've never felt comfortable the whole time.
Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards. You'll have to just live your lives, You'll have to take the good with the bad, the bad with the good, and just keep putting one foot in front of the other.
A man, who is friendly to everyone, treats everyone right. A man, that helps everyone but doesn't ask for help. A man, that is kind warm hearted, That man has found and helped everyone, except himself.
Proverbs 16: 16-17
How much better to get wisdom than gold, to choose understanding rather than silver!
The highway of the upright avoids evil; he who guards his way guards his life.