Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's crying together, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams and hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.
Unhealed trauma will create issues in your mind that don't exist...especially if you've been hurt over and over. Remind yourself to stop looking for things that aren't there