A lot of you men are PREDATORS. You believe you’re not because you’re not dragging women into a bush. You think you’re a good guy. In reality, you plot on women you’ve been watching from a distance. Presenting false version of yourself to get intimacy. Predatory.
Not to insult but after a certain point it’s no excuse if I got somebody 25+ saying stuff like this it’s because your comfortable being like that & don’t care about improving anybody over 22 not getting no sympathy for being damaged
What looks like avoidance is sometimes a person knowing they are not ready to add another person/people to their life and taking the time to get ready. Some people actually want to provide value to the lives of people that connect to them, and if they're lacking in certain areas, they will move away from you until they are no longer lacking. It's not always "eww I don't like you".
We can’t do casual dating or casual intimacy. There’s nothing casual about letting someone into my world. I love deeply, I connect deeply, and when I give someone my time, energy, or heart, I mean it. There’s simply nothing casual about the way I love.
@Dunkjoc No if the guys u want only want you for sex you can’t change that just like you can’t change who your physically attracted to, You yourself are the middle ground so the more”shallow” you are the more your gonna attract shallow people
People are too comfortable being fucked up in the world now everybody only care about their emotions after Covid a lot of people can’t fundamentally experience things from another person’s perspective I.E EMPATHY
quem dá ghosting/n responde nada/evita acho q merece explodir pprt pq vcs são assim, tipo, é difícil ser legal cm o outro ou algo do tipo? parece q td relação parece ter uma segunda intenção, e quando não existe mais, a amizade simplesmente vai pro caralho ne q porra eh essa
@Dunkjoc Nun wrong with that but there’s more to a relationship than the physical being shallow doesn’t make what you not cringe, if they only want you for sex it tells more about you than them
@4ktoby@saintsuperski Honestly it should come down to what people can handle & the depth of the connection, It can be hard dealing with a partner in that position especially if you don’t have much experience I don’t feel like it should be a dealbreaker though & attraction works in multiple ways anyway
@saintsuperski Of course you can but, if you end up still not being ready there will be collateral damage so just do whatever’s needed to heal that & make sure your doing all you can to be a good person to the people you care about & are dealing with
@saintsuperski Nobody said that the answer is to get help & to do the self work to understand & heal your unhealed trauma, If your not actively doing that stay away from everybody else, Do not subject unaware & unsuspecting people to your demons that shit is weird because now u passed them on
@catinthecoonhat Nah 100% I more so just feel like a lot of people brains been fucked up because of how dating & relationship culture has been hijacked
@foluswago Not true fam I get what u mean but a lot of people gaslight themselves into liking someone only because they’re “physically” attractive when in reality this person and you have nothing in common & are on 2 whole different wavelengths spiritually & mentally