Indeed, most of them are colorist and it’s been so normalized in the community, it comes out so easily in their rhetoric and commentary about black women.
When they say black men are colorist, I believe it because indeed I’ve seen it, heard it and seen many women experience the insults that BM will throw are DSBW unprovoked. it’s a shame.
not to offend anyone but at this age we should be more scared of being unskilled than single. partners come and go skills, career and self-worth are what keep you stable when life gets real.
One thing nobody tells you about adulthood is how fun it is to become your own person. One day you randomly start liking jazz, olive green, expensive dark chocolate, documentaries about volcanoes, weird lamps, sparkling water, books about loneliness in Tokyo, silver jewelry and quiet cafés. Your personality keeps unfolding forever if you let it.
as a woman it's so important that you learn how to be a Problem. I know what they taught you but fuck what you heard. you will people-please your way into an early grave
You can acquire any talent or skill you desperately seek through repetition, embarrassment, curiosity, discipline and time.
It’s a rite of passage to go through all, or most.
Do not let the illusion of urgency in this world deceive you. Slowness is sacred, and honoring your own pace is medicine. There is no rush to arrive. Take your time and allow life to meet you wherever you are.
I’m not having no kids for bm and bw go out sad everyday fucking and sucking these losers that literally hate us. Everyone in the world knows how much bm hate bw as a collective.