You'll regret it if you get married, you'll regret it if you don't get married. You'll regret it if you have kids and you'll regret it if you don't. Kierkegaard said this 200 years ago as follows - whatever you choose, you'll regret it, because the problem isn't in your choices, it's in romanticizing your life. A person always finds an untravelled path alluring and mysterious. That's why the issue isn't making the right choice. It's choosing and deciding which regret you'll live with. In life, we must choose our regret.
I love the theory that depression is the soul's way of rejecting the life you're forcing yourself to live. your spirit shuts down when you're too far from your purpose, people, or path.
There was this girl who claimed she died and went to hell, where she saw Michael Jackson being tormented in hellfire. She said his torment became even worse whenever people played his music.
After that she went to heaven, where God told her to return to Earth and warn us to repent.
Full grown adults that canโt swim, cycle, skate, backpack, take a gap year, vacation, play an instrument or speak multiple foreign languages. Just a lifetime of hustling and trying to leave survival mode. These are subtle poverty metrics that no one really talks about
Unfortunately there will be no evidence that you really tried your best if you don't make it. That's why you have to make it. Success is your only option. A moving manโฆ?