@complainer46@ayojoestar Yeah because many of the behaviours tied to ADHD are hormonally influenced.
Therefore, as your hormones explode and deplete in menopause your ADHD traits explode in all directions.
The pendulum swings get bigger.
Write down your behaviour cycles so you can expect them.
NEW. The woman who was strangled, beaten and raped by Paul Quinn in Salford in 2003 is a "hero", said Mr Justice Bright.
His remarks at the start of the sentencing hearing at Manchester Crown Court must be read. I don't think I've read anything like them before from a judge in a Crown Court:
@ayojoestar Yes. It can play over and over.
Talking, writing it down, only.learning 'closure' techniques that work for you.
I.e. this person really pissed me off and I cannot let it go!..closure..
This person is not gonna win by me staying pissed off. I forgive them, for-give it back to them
@bozwood@ayojoestar Exactly. Girls emotional dysregulation is internalised, and often presents in self-harming
Boys, generally speaking will have animated angry, aggressive outbursts.
Thus, the boys get wrap around support, the girls slip under the radar of support.
@ayojoestar This pushes the suffering beneath the surface until adulthood.
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We need to adapt screening and assessing to be feminine affirming when looking for traits, behaviours etc
@ayojoestar Some of the first women ever to be diagnosed with ADHD were those who were suffering immensely during menopause.
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Their Neuro-d meant their symptoms were excaserbated massively.
Diagnosis in young girls is very difficult, due to their masking abilities.
@Renatta I thank God for your life. I used to be so judgemental and dismiss people by how they looked. Lord forgive me.
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You helped me confess my sin and repent, I was convicted for judging you some time ago.
I am sorry.
Be blessed and may Our Lord grant you more gifts @Renatta
@bluewmist PRAY! Cry out to God..what have you got to lose!
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I don't give a shit what you believe cry ouy to God ask Him to rescue you and show you He is real.
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Do it the name of Jesus.
Chamo isso de Dilema do Cadeado: se Deus me protege e me ama, por que trancar o portão? Por que vidro blindado no papamóvel? Eu não estaria desconfiando de Deus ao me proteger? Há uma resposta simples e outra complexa sobre isso.
A simples está na Escritura: Não tentarás o Senhor teu Deus. Quando você percebe a possibilidade de perigo e mesmo assim a ignora sem motivo apenas para provocar a proteção divina, você cai na tentação que o diabo apresentou a Cristo, de se jogar do templo para que os anjos o segurassem. E Cristo responde: "Não tentarás o teu Deus".
A complexa está no final do comentário aos analíticos posteriores de Aristóteles feito por São Tomás de Aquino: quem abdica da razão perde o direito à boa providência. Se Deus te dá uma faculdade, é para que você a exerça. Se sua razão consegue conceber a possibilidade real de perigo, então está nas suas mãos te proteger quanto a isso. Se você abdica da razão, abdica do dom de Deus, e portanto de sua proteção. Mas que proteção, já que me protejo?
A proteção quanto às coisas que você não pode lidar. Por isso Paulo diz que Deus não permite tentações que não podemos vencer, ou seja, permitindo as que podemos vencer, pois estamos aqui para agir; mas quanto àquelas coisas que não podemos controlar ou até mesmo perceber, é aí que a providência de Deus sempre nos custodia conforme seus desígnios, e isto se usarmos nossa razão para nos protegermos daquilo que conseguimos conceber.
Resumindo: tranque seu portão.
@Bunny_ngl Over compensation.
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The insecurity creates an inflated ego, arrogance cloaking fear.
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Its also why you are feeling the imposter syndrome.
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Its an act of extreme pendulum swings.
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Learn to be comfortable inside as you. Do not look externally. You are OK as you.
@JZWing2@Favwontmiss Agreed. My point is 'self-nedicating' without realising is far more damaging. If you can function well w/o meds, great.
My point, many ADHDers can't see they are not coping but using unhealthy coping. Look at addiction figs and life expectancy of unmanaged high level ADHD
@LiamPatterson6 Wait, are they saying their own betting slips are NOT proof of putting on the bet??
.. Well that means no bet in the country done in person is worth anything?? Very sinister
@Favwontmiss I like this.
Usually i just invent weird games.
Like stopping the microwave on 1second..
Or balancing dishes at a weird angle after washing
@DebsValidation@Be_like_legend 'Stop shouting'...what? This is my voice, what do you want me to do, turn my voice down? I know when I am shouting, because its effort to shout. This is just 'certain about something' volume