Your brain is a marketplace.
Every thought is a vendor calling for your attention — some kind, some cruel.
You can’t control who shows up, but you can choose who you buy from.
That’s cognitive management.
You matter. And matter cannot be destroyed.
When healing from childhood trauma, one of the hardest things is holding onto what you've learned. The insights don't stick automatically.
Repetition is how we get them home. Find the phrase that hits, and keep it close.
Self-care isn't really about what you do. It's about what you slow down enough to notice.
When we stop rushing, we become aware of what's happening inside us. That awareness is the whole point. It's how we find out what we're actually feeling, thinking, & what needs attention
Many people have an unrealistic perception of what healing is. It stands in the way of them enjoying the growth they've already achieved.
Healing is the self-awareness to see how your past impacts you & knowing the steps to handle it, including caring for yourself.
Most people think of self-care as what you do. The hike, the walk, the long drive.
But you can take it a step further to get more out of your self-care activity.
Using AI Without Losing Yourself is a 60-minute live workshop for anyone who uses AI for personal reflection, emotional support, or mental health, or who is simply curious about how AI is designed to work on you and what you can do about it.
https://t.co/bFgJ3CSWxK
I have spent much of my life talking about the importance of self-care. I'm talking about the kind of self-care that we really need, that reconnects us to our sense of Self, to who we are and what we want.
In the age of AI, I think self-care is even more important than ever.
The Tool Your Clients Wish You Had Prescribed
Therapists Are Asking the Wrong Question About AI
AI was deliberately engineered to create the feeling of connection, because engagement is the business model.
https://t.co/Dg5SHCwLI6
Have you ever noticed how it feels like one thought can burrow into your brain, take hold and not let go?
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Coaching Intensive: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life: Thursday, April 16 @ 7pm ET
Only four spots remain
https://t.co/Z0g9sZ9eq3
Clients are already using AI for emotional support, and most clinicians don’t have a clear way to assess that. Until now, there hasn’t been a clinical framework.
Over the past two years, I’ve been developing one.
https://t.co/peU7D1AXET
Most people think they have a sleep problem, but they don’t. They have a nervous system that doesn’t know it’s okay to pause.
The Art of Sleep: How Nervous System Regulation Helps You Get The Rest You Need
https://t.co/jHnCRTvPRO
We’ll practice how to:
• Recognize distorted thinking patterns
• Challenge thoughts that aren’t actually accurate
• Reframe them into something more balanced and helpful
• Interrupt rumination before it turns into a full spiral
https://t.co/Z0g9sZ9eq3
Another way of thinking about when it's safe to use AI is these three conditions:
Self-awareness: Do you know what you need?
Directed use: Do you have a purpose for this chat?
Situational use: Are you using it, or relying on it?
I joined @mhnrnetwork for a discussion on AI and mental health. We talked about how AI is not a therapist but is a tool that can help us notice patterns in how we think, feel, and respond to the situations in our lives.
https://t.co/V9X9sdQEfG
IFS Coaching Intensive: Working With Your Parts for Anxiety & Inner Conflict
As of this posting, fewer than 5 spots remain.
Learn how to stay grounded when things get hard, change the way you handle stress, conflict, or anxiety.
https://t.co/MBMpVFdms0
Integration Circle: Monthly Coaching Group for Your Healing Journey: A small monthly coaching group designed to help you apply what you've been learning to real situations.
Thursday, 2/26/26 @ 7pm ET. Limited seats available.
https://t.co/A8nMVW4Q34
My latest article for Psychology Today has been published!
Nearly half of the people in my recent AI workshop who had therapy experience are now using AI for mental health support.
https://t.co/IqNVZfBzII
This Thursday at 7pm ET, I'm teaching a free workshop on emotional triggers and how to stay present when the past tries to pull you backward in time.
https://t.co/yTM4WhZqMw