@Eva_Sommie Real investment includes sacrifice, but demanding zero benefit turns relationships into one-way charity. mutual upside is what actually lasts.
men are EXTREMELY selfish and will always, always put themselves and their feelings FIRST. Which is why women should always do the same. You’ll never regret it.
you need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. that’s not you or who you want to be. so if they being that out of you, they’ve got to go
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
Hurting her while she was battling anxiety, financial stress, and family issues… and still expecting her to show up perfectly for you. That’s when you failed as a man.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is someone who acts like cause and effect does not exist. Your actions caused this outcome — so why are you standing there shocked, playing the victim.