Jelani McKenzie

Just living my life one day at a time...

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Ms_soulsnatchaa Present.

[Nick Di Fabio @NickDiFabio1]

If you got laid off tomorrow & had to replace your income ASAP, here's exactly what to do:

1. Go to Amazon and open a fresh account. Use a different name. It can be completely anonymous.

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@vers_goat @Vers_ThroatGOAT I suspect that you're making this dick throb bad...

[ᴅɪᴠɪɴᴇ ᴛʜᴏᴜɢʜᴛ ™️ ⟁ @DivineThoughtTM]

Unfortunately for 🫵🏻

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

Nobody talks about the late 30s to 40s personality shift where you no longer want to be remarkable, you just want to be rested, unbothered and completely unavailable to anything that's exhausting. And it hits you without warning.

One day you are chasing goals, chasing people, chasing validation, and the next day you wake up and something inside you has completely rewired itself.

The hunger to impress disappears. The need to be seen vanishes. The desire to be everywhere, know everyone, and prove yourself to the world just quietly packs its bags and leaves. And in its place is a woman who wants nothing more than peace, quiet, and the freedom to say no without explaining herself.

And the most liberating part is you stop feeling guilty about it.

You cancel plans without anxiety. You ignore calls without remorse. You let friendships fade that no longer feed your soul without chasing after people who never chased you. Your circle shrinks and your peace expands, and for the first time in your life, that does not scare you, it excites you. You are no longer interested in being the most impressive woman in the room, you are interested in being the most rested, most protected, most intentional version of yourself you have ever been.

The late 30s to 40s shift is not you losing yourself, it is you finally finding yourself after decades of performing for a world that was never going to be satisfied anyway.

Welcome to the era where your energy is expensive, your time is sacred, and your peace is no longer up for negotiation.

[Becca | UpwardChanging @Upwardchanging2]

Indecision is usually just cowardice dressed up as neutrality.

Fence sitters are problematic because they want all the benefits of having principles without accepting any of the risk that comes with standing by them.

They stay silent while everyone else takes the hits. They wait to see which way the wind blows, then suddenly they have an opinion once it’s safe.

If you never take a stand, don’t expect people to trust where you stand when it finally becomes convenient.

Not every issue requires you to choose a side, but if you spend your life avoiding uncomfortable positions because you’re afraid of criticism, conflict, or losing approval, then you’re not neutral and you are actually contributing further to problems.

You’re just protecting yourself while other people carry the consequences.

COWARDS!

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@sloppydude1001 Jynx makes me throb!

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@retiredgoonboi I'm trapped aren't I?

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@retiredgoonboi And be consumed by Willow's ass.

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@smi86446106 @sd

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Throatgf_ I love your last one ! ;)

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@rawbullyjuice @Ms_soulsnatchaa Seeing a tweet like that makes me grow....

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Ms_soulsnatchaa 😈😈😈🪵

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Ms_soulsnatchaa A whole pacifier 😈

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Ms_soulsnatchaa The slophole = A playpen with balls in it. You never wanna stop.

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Ms_soulsnatchaa Bring on them lips, Auntie 🫠🫠

[Nancy Burns Counseling @helpyouhealnow]

Shadows of Control -

You weren’t abused because you’re an easy target.
You weren’t abused because you’re gullible.
You weren’t abused because you’re too weak, too naive, or too sensitive.
You weren’t abused because you sometimes get things wrong.
You weren’t abused because you’re annoying or hard to love.
You weren’t abused because you’re a people pleaser. You weren’t abused because you attract the wrong people.
You were abused because someone chose to abuse you.
No matter what struggles you have or vulnerabilities you carry, the blame is not yours.
The responsibility lies with the person who caused harm.
The shame isn’t yours to carry.
It never was.

[Jelani McKenzie @JMackSmoove12]

@Ms_soulsnatchaa Nothing I love to see more than putting those dicksuckers to work.