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๐- Aspiring Businesswoman
๐ - Political Centrist | KatyCat | Also a Metalhead ๐ค๐พ๐ธ
๐ - A HUGE fan of Italy & Canada
@Fatiquefailure@jurnalhabertr Women would if less of your kind bested, r*ped, blackmailed them, lied to and cheated on them and so on.
And itโs a very very high number of you that are doing that.
And every time women or other men speak out about it, your entire gender goes quiet in the comments
@byeditzzz_7@jurnalhabertr Whatโs wrong with being Jewish? Itโs much much better than Islam. Iโve never heard of a Jew beating his wife or throwing acid in her face, stoning her to death etc..
@lidya_kayra@jurnalhabertr Believe it or not, not every woman lives for menโs approval. Donโt forget some women are lesbians or asexual, meaning you and any other manโs โapprovalโ would be useless.
Lots of women dress and look nice for their own self-confidence, ever think of that?
A healthy partner will take accountability for hurting you, reflect on their actions, and adjust their behavior.
A toxic partner will say,
"Guess I'm just a terrible person who doesn't care about you."
Believe them.
@menscoach1 Couldn't have said it better myself. People don't realize that when you're able to overcome the obstacles in your marriage it makes your marriage that much better on the other side. You build a better understanding of that person.
Marriage is a social media game now. Who looks better. Who people approve of. Everything is from a social media point of view. What will people say. How will people react. Everyone looks like an ordinary person, but social media decides who looks better. Who should be with who. Who should date who.
People look at marriage from the other people's point of view.
How many people are good looking? They actually wear a lot of makeup... Their social media perception is more important than reality.
Hype and larger than life delusional imagination has made marriage a circus.
People are more concerned if their spouses fit the social media image. When your entire life is a social media circus... How can marriages be realistic.
Spouses have social media specifications...
They cannot be short, tall, black, white, brown, yellow, or whatever... Everything has to match with other people's ideas.
That sparkling social media image fades away quickly when the reality of living with a human being becomes evident.
In real life, we are just ordinary human beings. All of us. Just human beings.
No one can continue a fake social media image for a long time. Relationships have to be based on depth, love and understanding. Instead it is based on what perception you have created of yourself to the other person.
Marriages last only when people are real with themselves and others.
Stop fooling others. Stop fooling yourself.
Divorce rates are high in this generation for one simple reason. People don't understand what marriage actually is. Social media made everyone believe there's always someone better out there, a richer man, a prettier woman, a more exciting life, but comparison kills loyalty.
People want weddings, not marriages. They'll spend months planning a ceremony and zero time learning how to communicate when things get hard. Nobody knows how to argue anymore.
They yell, they shut down, they run instead of learning how to fight for each other. Money pressure exposes weak foundations. Instead of building together, couples turn on each other, men stop leading, women stop respecting their men, temptation is everywhere. Now everyone uses therapy words to escape accountability. Everything is toxic, everything is trauma. Nothing is ever their fault.
There's no community pressure to stay married anymore. No elders saying work it out. Just friends saying leave. You deserve better. Kids became optional, sacrifice became outdated and vows became suggestions.
Marriage used to mean I'll suffer with you. Now it means I'll stay as long as I'm happy. And that's why divorce is high. Because people don't know how to suffer together.
They only know how to quit when excitement is no longer there.
We are in the trenches!!