The heaviest gates in the world open if you just push them, most people just never try because they're too busy wondering if they're allowed to touch the door
read something from atomic habits this week that has been stuck in my mind:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."