i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
honestly, my true love language is not having to ask. not having to ask for reassurance, not having to ask for attention, not having to ask for money/a gift, not having to ask if there’s problems between us.. just living and thriving “knowing”