I stopped accepting the "I've been busy" "I got a lot going on right now" type excuses from somebody I'm dating because how are you supposed to build something forever if anytime shit gets hard you put me on the shelf? i'm gone.
Unfortunately, i don't like nonchalant men. Be dominant. Check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me
ladies, let's normalize telling men, "I'm not interested anymore because the way you treat me makes me feel less than the woman I truly am".
STOP SETTLING!!
when i vent. I tell both sides. I never just tell my side cause I always wanna know if I'm tripping or not. I'm not venting for you to be on my side. I'm venting for another point of view.
Never teach a man how to be your man. Don't ask him for anything. Not a date. Not flowers. Not clingy texts. Not morning calls. Not time. Not affection. When a man truly wants you, he moves different on his own. Life is too short to be waiting for someone to ACT right!