A lover of Christ, Marine Engineer👨✈️, @ChifeOnyii❤️, Vee & JJ's daddy, a diehard @ManUtd Fan, a proud Anambra man and a lover of real strong black coffee
Befofe the end of October 2926
Lands, assets and houses you never laboured for, contracts you never bid for, breakthrough you never paid for
God will put them in your hands
#HallelujahChallenge
Before 2020, I was always leaving the house every day of the week to work.
Sometimes, I would return home at 8 or 9pm.
Once I enter the house, my wife would welcome me.
On the TV, she would be watching one movie or series.
Then she will change the channel to CNN or BBC for me and ask me to go shower and have dinner.
"This is what you stay at home all day to do. Watch Telemundo or Zee world. You stay at home all day doing nothing. I go out every day to earn money to provide you for you and these children. Lazy woman!"
She won't say anything to me.
She'll go to the kitchen and wait for me to shower before dishing out my food.
I would notice that her eyes were blurry.
In the morning, I would be off by latest 6:30 am.
One day, I came back home, and my wife said that she wanted to discuss with me.
"Sweetie, I am depressed. I want to go back to work. I feel like I am useless in this marriage and I am not contributing anything to it. Please, help me find a job"
I blasted her and told her that I got a job without her, and I used my qualifications to apply, and that she should do same.
My wife cried so much that night.
Then came covid 19...
My office had asked us to start working from home.
Monday to Friday, I was home working.
My kids were still going to school under strict covid rules.
I started studying my wife more.
This woman was not resting.
I figured that she was only watching those series or shows just to stay awake to welcome me back home.
She was busier than I was.
She showed me what it meant to have a wife who is a housewife.
One day, I could not take it anymore.
"Baby, you have been asking me to pay you monthly salary, I think you're right. I will be giving you the money"
Covid made me appreciate my lovely wife, more.
Despite dating her for 9 years, I still could not see that God had blessed me enormously.
Because I was carried away by my female colleagues that were age mates with me and working.
And I wanted my wife to "fit in".
I was wrong.
That was why in 2021, I came here to write that a housewife that is playing her role effectively and efficiently without bringing a dime is not a liability.
It took me years into marriage to realize this.
My lovely wife is a hard worker.
And I have seen and still seeing the results of her hardwork on our lovely children.
Our children are so smart and they're high flyers in their schools.
Not only that, they are well behaved and very respectful and contented with what they have.
All made possible because of my lovely wife.
As a man, if you have a wife like mine, please be kind and be patient with her.
Yes, she may not be bringing money, but that's not her primary role or responsibility.
Your Lovely wife is more valuable to you than the money that you hope to be getting from her.
Only if you will open your brain and mind to understand me.
End.
🚨 Michael Carrick: “It felt like a fresh start today, where we're at, accepting it and doing something about it”.
“There was a real purpose to the group the last couple of days and they took it out onto the pitch”.
Watch a video made by a Y0ruba woman who lives in the USA.
She is highly intelligent.
She was asking Y0ruba pe0ple whether Igb0s are the reasons for Y0ruba failures and poverty.
The video is nearly 9 minutes and every Y0ruba is supposed to watch this video and receive sense.
You will always tell us what you want us to hear. We know this reverse psychology thing very well. My own is beat the shit out of Leeds, Como, Bournemouth and build on that momentum
🚨 Manchester United have fined Lisandro Martínez as punishment and consider the case now closed.
Lisandro spoke to Carrick and the directors to clarify the situation, apologize then now moving on.
🎥 More: https://t.co/ZRzpjnk5ft
🚨 OFFICIAL: Lisandro Martínez releases new statement after meeting with Carrick and club directors.
“Today I met with the club’s leadership and the manager. It was a very positive conversation, where we were able to exchange views and speak openly about what happened after the game”.
“Everyone knows that I am a passionate person and that I live football with great intensity. The frustration of the defeat led me to express how I felt at a time and place that perhaps were not the right ones, and for that I want to apologise”.
“Our club is at its best when we are all united, and I recognise that my words in that moment did not help with that”.
“I know that every single person at Manchester United is doing everything possible to achieve our shared ambition: bringing the success that this club and its supporters deserve”.
“With this situation now behind us, we are fully focused on winning together”.