Don’t yall hate when you tell someone you don’t talk to a family member anymore and the first thing they say is life is short? Like yea I know…which is why I’m not finna spend it tolerating several forms of abuse and narcissism 😭TF
I’m resilient when I need to be, but I don’t like wearing my strength as a badge of honour because people take it as a sign to demand so much from you. Had to put boundaries in place and let people know that I’m equally just as gentle, delicate, and sensitive.
The healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.