@therealbbii No, I disagree. What men and women have done in their past matters because it could effect them then or later in their relationship and life.
Choices have consequences. If you have an issue with having that conversation then you probably shouldn't date at all
@ChezCharde Personally, it's always interesting reading the mental gymnastics some BW will do to convince themselves that BM don't desire them.
1) What is there to gain by convincing yourself that BM don't desire you?
2) Are you scared that your entire identity is based on hating BM?