Some people will swear that you are the problem. Yet, after you leave, their lives remain exactly the same: the same habits, the same issues, and the same chaos. That is when it hits you; it was never you. They just need someone to blame so they don't have to face themselves.
Ghosting someone after hurting the fuck out of them and confusing them and leaving everything completely unexplained doesn’t get rid of the problem btw it just makes you a coward
one of the most painful realizations is understanding that you were fighting to keep something alive while the other person was slowly getting used to life without you