If the aim of your SUCCESS is to make others jealous, you're aiming too low.
•Aim to give glory to GOD.
•Aim to inspire.
•Aim to uplift.
•Aim to make a difference.
•Aim to prove it can be done.
Hope this made little sense?
WHEN A MAN GOES QUIET 🔥‼️
When a woman goes quiet, she is leaving. She has already grieved, already pleaded, already explained herself until her words ran dry. Her silence is the closing of a door she spent years trying to keep open.
But when a man goes quiet, truly quiet…he is not broken. He is not indifferent. He is calculating.
He is replaying every moment. Measuring every word ever said against every action ever taken. He is deciding not reacting. And there is a dangerous difference between the two.
You mistook his patience for weakness. You saw no raised voice and assumed no pain. You saw no tears and assumed no depth. But still waters don’t mean shallow waters. They mean deep.
He doesn’t need to yell to be angry. He doesn’t need to beg to want you. He doesn’t need to chase to still care. His silence isn’t surrender but it’s strategy. It’s the moment a man stops explaining himself and starts deciding his next move.
The loudest thing in the room is sometimes the thing nobody is saying.
By the time he speaks again if he speaks again his mind is already made up. And unlike the argument you thought you won, this decision won’t be reversed by tears or an apology.
A man’s silence isn’t weakness.
It’s the last warning you didn’t hear.
Be guided.
One survival skill you must learn early in life is detachment.
If you want to move forward in life you must learn how to detach yourself from people, things, career, environment, school, and so on.
People will be good for you until one day, they will no longer be good for you, and the only way to move forward is to walk away.
It comes a point in your life when you are stuck in a neighborhood, career, relationship, friendship, or even habit and the only way to grow is to move on.
But you can’t do this if you have attachment issues. You’ll keep thinking about the good times, about low long and how far, the idea of forever you created in your head.
You need to understand that life is in phases. People come and they go. Things happen in your life and it comes a time when you just need to close that chapter and move on to the next phase no matter how unsure or uncertain you are.
Something must go for something new to be born. Detachment is hard, it hurts, it is challenging but it is necessary. You’ll remain in one place forever if you don’t learn this survival skill.
May the Lord judge the enemies of this nation once and for all in this season. These killings are too much, senseless and cruel!
Psalm 82’1-8 is my prayer in this season…
If you’re in a relationship with someone who watches their words even when they’re angry, treasure that person. They’re rare.
Such people are gems, they have self-control, respect, and emotional maturity. They may get upset, but they still choose not to hurt you with their tongue.
That’s real discipline. That’s real love.
Not everyone can hold their peace in anger. Many people let emotions rule them and say things that cut deep, then try to fix the damage later.
But when you find someone who can be angry without being cruel, don’t take them for granted.
That kind of respect, even in heated moments, is the mark of someone who values you, not just in good times, but also when things get tough.
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