I enjoy deep mind provoking conversations! Let’s talk about transitions! Lessons learned! Submitting to God! The controversial battle of men vs women! Letting go of habits! Books we’ve read! It’s sooo satisfying to have discussions that aren’t surface level and superficial.
Marriage tip ‼️
Keep family out of your marriage!
Marriage requires a ton of learning & forgiveness overtime. Sharing every problem can cause family to form biased opinions about your spouse. That opens the door for seeds of doubt to be planted.
“i NeED SoMEboDy To vENt tO”. Vent to yourself, God, or more importantly your spouse. Communication & understanding can tackle every problem that venting to family members can’t.
🗣️Keep family out of it. Set a boundary & uphold it.
Not to mention, family doesn’t see the time, communication, work, & effort put into solving said problems. Thus, they begin to see your spouse as the sole problem, a division is formed, & their forgiveness becomes unwarranted.
A lot of people tend to look for evidence to support their pre-planned inaction. You had no plans to change your behavior, so of course the first piece of info that confirms your bias is the one you accept as fact, regardless of it's actual factual relevance.