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A message for survivors and their loved ones… written with love and fight for a better future. By: Jamie R I’ve spent 16 years on X, with thousands of followers and countless hours on the mic, yet this 👇 is why you’ve never heard most of my story. "From the Closet of Silence to Survivor’s Voice: Let Us Speak" Trauma locks us in a closet of silence. The pain, the shame… it’s crushing, so we bury it, hoping it stays hidden. Some of us stay trapped there for years, afraid to face the truth, and sadly some don’t make it. God Bless to each and every one of them I pray they now have peace. But one day, some of us fight back. We do the work… therapy, tears, rage, healing, and we break free. We become survivors, victims no longer. That’s strength. That’s survival. Living “afterwards” is a battle. When we speak our truth, people… especially friends and family, shut us down. “You’re getting emotional,” they say. “You’re crying, maybe you shouldn’t talk about it.” Or they’ll say, “Oh, you don’t have to talk about it, I don’t want to upset you,” thinking we’re too fragile to continue. But it’s the opposite… listeners, especially non-survivors, are the ones who can’t handle our stories and emotions. They shy away, unwilling to join us in our pain, not realizing that sharing it helps us heal. They think silencing us protects us, but that’s a rampant misconception. Crying isn’t a sign we’re falling apart; it’s a release, a healing step, not harmful. Yet, loved ones, without deep thought, assume it’s better we stay quiet, not realizing they’re echoing the predators who hurt us. Their dismissal, even if not malicious, attempts to lock us back in that closet of silence we fought so hard to escape. If I lived through the hell of trauma, you can bloody well listen. Survivors are done being silenced. People flinch, saying, “It’s too much to hear.” Too much? Try surviving it! And don’t demand “proof.” Ninety + percent of us have none… just our word against a predator’s in a dark room alone. He said, she said. That’s our reality. Sexual addiction and abuse are rampant across the world, and far too many of us have been on the receiving end of its sick, demented reality. Why would anyone invent such horror? The average person doesn’t fabricate this pain. And then there are the grifters…those scum of the earth who fake victimhood for attention, money, or power. Their lies are a deliberate betrayal, re-victimizing every real survivor by sowing doubt and making our truth harder to believe. They exploit our pain, shoving us toward that closet of silence, and one day, they’ll face God with the ugly truth of their actions. But their lies won’t stop us. When I’m speaking my truth, yeah, maybe I’ve got tears streaming down my face… don’t you dare shut me down. Have some balls, respect my pain, and let me damn well speak, you’re the one having an issue handling it! Friends and family, your well-meaning attempts to “protect” me by silencing my tears are wrong. Those tears are healing, not hurting. Stop assuming you know what’s best without thinking it through… you’re pushing me back into that suffocating closet, delaying my further healing and keeping me trapped. Don’t just listen… validate us, amplify our voices, and stand with us as allies. We survivors speak to heal, to help others, to break the cycle. So, step back. Listen. Without judgment. We’re not just survivors; we’re warriors breaking the silence for ourselves and those still trapped in the silence. The rise of our voices being heard and respected, is the only justice most of us will ever get. Don’t pull away when we cry, it’s at that moment, you will hear our clearest truths and realities ❤️🙏🏻. For those who took the time to read, Thank you and God Bless You Jamie R.💗 @jamiewedcoor ©️

JamieWedCoor's tweet photo. A message for survivors and their loved ones… written with love and fight for a better future.
By: Jamie R

I’ve spent 16 years on X, with thousands of followers and countless hours on the mic, yet this 👇 is why you’ve never heard most of my story.

"From the Closet of Silence to Survivor’s Voice: Let Us Speak"

Trauma locks us in a closet of silence. The pain, the shame… it’s crushing, so we bury it, hoping it stays hidden. Some of us stay trapped there for years, afraid to face the truth, and sadly some don’t make it. God Bless to each and every one of them I pray they now have peace. But one day, some of us fight back. We do the work… therapy, tears, rage, healing, and we break free. We become survivors, victims no longer. That’s strength. That’s survival.
Living “afterwards” is a battle. When we speak our truth, people… especially friends and family, shut us down. “You’re getting emotional,” they say. “You’re crying, maybe you shouldn’t talk about it.” Or they’ll say, “Oh, you don’t have to talk about it, I don’t want to upset you,” thinking we’re too fragile to continue. But it’s the opposite… listeners, especially non-survivors, are the ones who can’t handle our stories and emotions. They shy away, unwilling to join us in our pain, not realizing that sharing it helps us heal. They think silencing us protects us, but that’s a rampant misconception. Crying isn’t a sign we’re falling apart; it’s a release, a healing step, not harmful. Yet, loved ones, without deep thought, assume it’s better we stay quiet, not realizing they’re echoing the predators who hurt us. Their dismissal, even if not malicious, attempts to lock us back in that closet of silence we fought so hard to escape.
If I lived through the hell of trauma, you can bloody well listen. Survivors are done being silenced. People flinch, saying, “It’s too much to hear.” Too much? Try surviving it! And don’t demand “proof.” Ninety + percent of us have none… just our word against a predator’s in a dark room alone. He said, she said. That’s our reality. Sexual addiction and abuse are rampant across the world, and far too many of us have been on the receiving end of its sick, demented reality. Why would anyone invent such horror? The average person doesn’t fabricate this pain.
And then there are the grifters…those scum of the earth who fake victimhood for attention, money, or power. Their lies are a deliberate betrayal, re-victimizing every real survivor by sowing doubt and making our truth harder to believe. They exploit our pain, shoving us toward that closet of silence, and one day, they’ll face God with the ugly truth of their actions. But their lies won’t stop us. When I’m speaking my truth, yeah, maybe I’ve got tears streaming down my face… don’t you dare shut me down. Have some balls, respect my pain, and let me damn well speak, you’re the one having an issue handling it! Friends and family, your well-meaning attempts to “protect” me by silencing my tears are wrong. Those tears are healing, not hurting. Stop assuming you know what’s best without thinking it through… you’re pushing me back into that suffocating closet, delaying my further healing and keeping me trapped. Don’t just listen… validate us, amplify our voices, and stand with us as allies. We survivors speak to heal, to help others, to break the cycle. So, step back. Listen. Without judgment. We’re not just survivors; we’re warriors breaking the silence for ourselves and those still trapped in the silence. The rise of our voices being heard and respected, is the only justice most of us will ever get. Don’t pull away when we cry, it’s at that moment, you will hear our clearest truths and realities ❤️🙏🏻.
For those who took the time to read, Thank you and God Bless You
Jamie R.💗
@jamiewedcoor ©️

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