It's been a long time since I tweeted something, but yeah, I can attest to that “your life will change in a blink of an eye", and it’s CRAAAAAZZZYYYYY (in a good way) how things will turn out for the best; it may not be perfect, but it’ll all work out. 🧿🌸
Girls in their 30s be like, “OMG I’m so behind,” but meanwhile they’ve healed their inner child, stopped people pleasing, left that toxic job, started therapy, learned to enjoy their own company, travel when they want, and actually like themselves now. Like sis. You’re not behind at all. You’re evolving.
every time you say “this is new for me” instead of “i’m bad at this,” you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. that’s neuroplasticity in real time.
Finally acting like a mid-20s cutie instead of taking on everyone’s problems and responsibilities. I know I’ll be there again, but I love this era where I don’t have to be anything just yet.
My therapist told me this, and it changed my life:
"You're not healing to be able to handle trauma, pain, anxiety, depression. You're used to those. You're healing to be able to handle joy and to accept happiness back into your life."