this is what love does to a brain.
in people whose grief doesn't fade, a reminder of the person they lost still lights up the nucleus accumbens, part of the reward system. the more they long for them, the stronger it fires.
763 dives. part of him is still looking for her.
The reason long-term couples go from being all over one another to eventually sexless is pretty simple.
It's not because they let themselves go or they stop trying.
It's because it's biologically unnatural for both men and women to still be excited about procreating with one another after doing it over and over again.
This is what almost nobody wants to acknowledge.
That long-term monogamy is biologically untenable.
It's a social construct, nothing more.
(Also a woman created this graphic.)
@cremieuxrecueil Islam's only accomplishment is world domination. The Muslims conquered most of the known world during the "dark ages". Now America (the "bastion of democracy") wants to outdo them and conquer all the world of the third millennium.
Society needs strong men. No wife wants to see her husband as a weak guy. No parents want their son weak. Every child wants a strong father. This ruthless society exploits nice, shy, and introverted men. Only strong and ruthless guys win in life and get respect. Play the game as great men did. Be a strong guy: provide for your family, don’t pass weak values to your generations, don’t whine, face problems on your own, don’t show weakness. This may sound harsh. But Understand the game; don’t hate it.
Soft men keep trying to be safe and likable. Arrogant men stay unbothered. One gets polite replies. The other gets her attention, her time, and eventually her body.
The men who get this stop performing and start assuming. They talk like the outcome is already decided. That energy pulls her in before she even realizes she’s leaning.
She’ll complain about it, call it toxic, then keep orbiting the guy who doesn’t chase. Her words and her behavior never match. Watch what she does, not what she posts.
Girls can’t help themselves. They’re drawn to arrogant men the same way fat kids are drawn to cotton candy. It isn’t a choice. It’s instinct.
Arrogance signals:
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY!!!
1. Make food;
2. Sleep with him;
3. Don't ask questions;
4. Leave him alone.
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY:
1. Be Friends
2. Companion
3. Lover
4. Beautiful
5. Charming
6. Good in the kitchen
7. Athleticism
8. Electrician
9. Plumber
10. Mechanic
11. Carpenter
12. Decorator
13. Stylist
15. Poet
16. Psychologist
17. Bug zapper
18. Psychiatrist
19. Good-natured
20. A good listener
21. Organizer
22. A good father
23. Smelly
24. Empathetic
25. Cult
26. Sensitive
27. Attentive
28. Seductive
29. Smart
30. Funny
31. Creative
32. Hot
33. Strong
34. Understanding
35. Tolerant
36. Prudent
37. Ambitious
38. Capable
39. Brave
40. Determined
41. True
42. Insurance
43. Check everything
44. Punching bag
45. Lonely without friends
DON'T FORGET TO:
46. Praise often
47. Give gifts
48. Be honest
49. Opening the car door
50. Not to stress her
51. Don't look at other women.
52. Lift the toilet lid.
53. Being a computer teacher.
54. Don't snore.
55. Do not dry your feet with a towel.
AND ALSO:
56. Never forget:
* her birthday
* dating anniversary
* the anniversary of the first kiss
* the anniversary of the first time they met
*her mother's birthday
* Valentine's Day & being faithful
THEY HATE...
1. Who responds
2. Who remains silent
3. Who lie to them
4. Who tell them the truth
5. Worries
6. Who doesn't care
7. Who is jealous
8. Who isn't jealous
BONUS:
And never forget fellas, even if you are right, you are always wrong.
Let the truth be told.
A rich boring man loses to a normal man who makes her nervous, laughing, and slightly unsure.
She won’t rank your bank account in bed. She’ll remember how her body reacted when you walked in.
1. Excitement. You break her routine.
2. Tension. She feels the pull and the risk of losing you.
3. Safety inside your frame. Led, not negotiated with.
4. Status in the moment. Other women notice you, she feels chosen.
She’s on a date with the taller, richer, better-looking guy and she’s bored because value isn’t what you have. It’s how you make her feel.
Money, height, looks, and muscle get you noticed.
They don’t keep her: