BE INTENTIONAL
With your life. With your habits. With your energy.
With your words. With who you surround yourself with.
With how you show up daily. With what youâre working towards.
With the steps you take.
Above all, with what you really want.
I like how Ladies are always sleek with these yarns..
âWhen I love, I love completely, when itâs you, itâs only youâ
Instead of.. âWhen iâm in a relationship, I stay faithful to the personâ
They do this just so if theyâre dating and still cheat, they can easily make it pass as âshe didnât love himâ or âHe just wasnât the oneâ
Thatâs why whatever a girl does something bad to a guy(Her Man).. No matter how terrible what she did is⌠Just check the comments, Ladies are always quick to say
âItâs coz she doesnât love him/She obviously doesnât love himââŚ
Instead of simply calling her a terrible person that she is.
You also hear things like âIf your girlfriend loves you, sheâd get you something on Valentineâs day and spoil youâ
Like hollup, didnât you just say GIRLFRIEND ?
Howâs she answering âGirlfriendâ and still needs a special love-trigger to act like one ?
I know you mfs know exactly what youâre doing.. And iâll stay exposing your fufu tricks.
Advice for Newlyweds đâ¤ď¸
Congratulations to every newlywed đ¤
Marriage is beautiful⌠but itâs also a serious responsibility.
Here are a few truths and advice that can save your home.
First: Marriage is not the wedding.
The wedding is one day.
Marriage is the everyday choice to love, forgive, communicate and stay committed especially when itâs not convenient.
Love alone is not enough.
Love is sweet, but respect is what keeps the home standing.
If love is the heart, respect is the oxygen.
Never enter marriage with the mindset of:
âIâm right.â
Enter with:
âLetâs fix it.â
Because in marriage, itâs not you vs your partnerâŚ
Itâs both of you vs the problem.
One major key: learn your partnerâs language.
Some people want affection.
Some want words.
Some want acts.
Some want time.
Some want gifts.
Love them the way they receive love, not only the way you give it.
You must learn to apologize.
Not because youâre always wrong,
but because peace is more valuable than pride.
Never compare your marriage.
Not with your parentsâ.
Not with social media.
Not with your friendsâ.
Every home has its own tests and timing.
Keep your marriage private.
Not everything sweet needs an audience.
Not every misunderstanding needs public sympathy.
Protect your home like itâs your biggest investment.
Donât allow outsiders control your marriage.
Too many homes crash because of:
âmy friend saidâŚâ
âmy sister saidâŚâ
âmy guys saidâŚâ
Advice is good, but your marriage is not a group project.
Learn this early:
Your partner is not your enemy.
Theyâre your teammate.
Talk gently.
Correct with love.
Donât use insults during arguments.
Money matters.
Talk about:
spending habits
saving
debt
responsibilities
who pays what
Silence about money can create problems that love cannot solve.
Never stop dating each other.
Marriage is not the end of romance.
Itâs the beginning of intentional romance.
Small gifts, kind words, surprise careâkeep it alive.
Sex wonât fix a broken marriage.
But a healthy emotional connection can make intimacy sweet.
Communicate.
Be patient.
Donât weaponize your partnerâs vulnerability.
Forgiveness is not weakness.
Itâs wisdom.
Youâll both make mistakes.
Forgive, heal, and grow.
But also set boundaries against repeated disrespect.
Finally: pray for your home.
Whether youâre religious or not marriage needs grace.
May your home be filled with peace, loyalty, understanding and lasting love đ¤
Congratulations once again to all newlyweds đ
May your marriage be a safe place, not a battlefield.
The next time you feel the urge to defend a Nigerian politician or make excuses for the lunatic incompetence of the animals in power, pls take a min to watch this video.
This is a âworld-class hospitalâ that Nigerian politicians expect all of you to use.
Rotimi Amaechi has presidential ambitions, but he is not getting attacked.
El-Rufai has presidential ambitions, but he is not getting attacked.
Atiku has presidential ambitions, but he is not getting attacked.
Kwankwaso has presidential ambitions, but he is not getting attacked.
So why are they attacking Peter Obi for having presidential ambitions just like everyone else?
Why is everyone including the ruling party attacking only Peter Obi?
Why are our influencers not having hot takes about other aspirants the way they do about Peter Obi?
Why is the whole system against one man for daring to be different?
Why are they all trying so hard to group Peter Obi in the same category as the others?
Dear Obidients,
Don't let anyone gaslight you o.
You have the best product, market it with all your conviction and stand by your beliefs.
It's Peter Obi Or Nothing.
God abegđŠđŠđŠ
This country is something else!đŠđ
I just told my brother not to expect light because there was light from morning till 4pm this evening.
Funny thing, they wonât actually bring light tonight.
Again, when will it end???
God abegđŠđŠđŠ
This country is something else!đŠđ
I just told my brother not to expect light because there was light from morning till 4pm this evening.
Funny thing, they wonât actually bring light tonight.
Again, when will it end???
When someone mistakenly sends money to your account, please return it. If they donât reach out soon enough, go to your bank with your lawyer and inform them. Thank you