@chompotron This is my brain trying to parse the real difference. Is it the hand is smeared in the green one to add “motion” to it like the hand is reaching out and the red one is more of a linear path to where the hand pops up at the end of the animation?
@Piixxiebuns@spaceghost Yeah I realized I’m speaking from really more personal experience and perspective but I do agree this overal ifea of “grrrr masculine means tough and rough” is outdated.
I also never have thought about men who dress for the male gaze? I care more about comfort but may be a me.
@Piixxiebuns@spaceghost To be fair I think the bigger hurdle is self approval than the “group think” if you can plant that seed and make it grow approval of others kinda fades.
I don’t see me ever dressing like that not because of other men but because I’d hate to see myself in it in any way.