i texted her, "how was your day today?", and she sent me a 7 minute vn, telling me everything.. and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.
Maturity is realizing that a relationship can work and actually be fixed in almost any situation. It just takes the both of you to actually want it to work and correct what you're doing that is hurting your partner.
Having a good gym physique seems like it's the norm because of social media but when you step outside...a good physique is actually pretty uncommon. People are mid af.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
We are desensitized that the USA is invading a sovereign nation and everyone is just like “I guess this is just what we do”
Nobody is phased. Everyone in America is sleeping soundly, and we wonder why the rest of the world hates us?
Unreal timeline
I increasingly believe a significant problem we have with people who grew up online is that they actually do not believe reality is really real and act accordingly.