“No intelligent white person wants his white sons and daughters, marrying black sons and daughters. Why would anyone marry outside of their race. It’s a destruction of your own people. I want kids that look like me.”
-Muhammad Ali
Women always ask, why is Future seemingly celebrated for the same things that Lori Harvey is shamed for ? They both have dated a lot of people, yet the views society has on them is a bit different
Well this is about the same thing as why is a woman who sleeps around called a slut/hoe but a man who seemingly does the same is called a player/womanizer
The main reason is that, it requires no special skill, uniqueness or effort to be a hoe but it requires the opposite to be a player. The truth is any woman if she wants to do what Lori Harvey does, sleep with many men, any woman can do so. But not every man can sleep with as many women as a Future. In simple terms it's easy to be a hoe, but hard to be a player
It is that much easier for a woman to get men to sleep with her than it is for a man to get women to sleep with him. A woman just has to be pretty, heck even ugly women got guys flocking in their DMs, because men tend to just want to fuck whatever they can get access to
But for a man to be a player, you have to be interesting, charismatic, smart, rich, popular, powerful, handsome, in shape etc. You can see that the criteria to be a slut is pretty much simple compared to the criteria for one to be a player
There's a reason why they're more male virgins in their early teens compared to female virgins in their early teens. Because nothing is easy about being a man, even the title of being a player, it is actually earned. Whilst for a woman to be a hoe, she just has exist and spread her legs for whoever she wants
Learn OR perish!!!
Will Smith married Jada a damaged woman and he is now paying heavily for that costly lapse of judgement. And you too can pay a heavy price if you don't steer away from damaged women
Here are a few examples of damaged women:
•SINGLE MOMS - never try to succeed were another man failed. Don't try to start a family with someone's else family. And know this, single moms aren't looking for love but help
•SINGLE MOM DAUGHTERS - women raised by single moms tend to be damaged due to their daddy issues. They grow up in a hateful environment, were the mother despises men, the apple never falls far from the tree
•VICTIMS OF ABUSE - yes it may not be her fault but the fact that she went through some form of abuse, she comes with a lot of trauma. You're not a therapist, neither are you Jesus, let her be with her traumas
•WIDOWED - by an means avoid women who lost their lovers via death, they're always going to be tied to their dead lovers. And she will always compare you to her dead lover, you will be competing with a dead man and sadly you'll never be enough
•IF SHE DATED THUGS - this is why it's important to vet a woman's past, the type of men she's dated before tells you everything about her. If she dated thugs/bums, that is her type, she's damaged. She is now programmed to reward toxicity, anything else is a turn off
•IF SHE DATED CELEBRITIES - celebrities tend to live the fast life, always in the spotlight. She too will get hooked to that lifestyle, it gives her a dopamine rush. And it gives her a sense of importance being associated with that celebrity. If you're just an average guy, she's going to find you boring
•IF SHE DATED POLITICIANS - she's attracted to power, it turns her on. It gives her sense of importance being associated with these powerful men. If you're just an average guy, she's going to view you as weak, she will be very disrespectful and ultimately she'll cheat or dump you
•PARTY GIRLS - any woman who goes clubbing regularly is damaged. Club culture is all about promiscuity, she has probably slept with many men than she can remember, from the bouncers, bar tenders to the patrons, in all kinds of places, toilets, cars, lodges and has more than once woke up at a stranger's house with no memory whatsoever of how she got there
•30+ YEAR OLD GRANNIES - find a woman who's still single in her 30s you will soon understand why she's still single in her 30s. If she was such a gem, she would be off the market by that age. She is trouble, she carries a lot of baggage
•FEMINIST - no woman out of the blue decides that she is now a feminist, if you trace her history, she was damaged somehow - be it abandonment issues, abused, aborted or got heartbroken. Show me a happy feminist and I'll show you an honest politician, they're always miserable
Thesr are just some of the many examples of damaged women you're supposed to stay away from. If anything the most you can do is just smash and pass but never commiting, you will regret it soon rather than later. And we will use you as an example
Learn OR perish!!!
Young man:
The last place to look for a woman is the church
The modern church is now a haven of hoeism & simpism
It's now a safe space for women wasted their prime years
The modern church is highly infested with old women (women approaching their 30s) & single mothers
And the pastors main job is to brainwash you into picking & saving these damaged women
To be honest, there's no space for a man in the modern church
Learn OR perish!!!
"What is encouraging to note is that WHO has been by our side, present with us in the communities. We will not stop this fight until we have zero cases of #polio" - Lusungu Gondwe, Health Surveillance Assistant, Zingwangwa Health Center, Blantyre. #EndPolioNow
Reflections on Oral Cholera #vaccination campaign in hard to reach hotspot areas as #Malawi holds zonal After Action Review AAR meetings for shared experiences of previous #outbreak to map out best practices for effective #cholera management in Malawi.
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Doreen is a Standard 4 Student at Naotcha Primary School in Chilobwe, Blantyre. She says the dedication from health workers in this second round of polio #vaccine in #Malawi has motivated her to become a doctor when she grows up to protect all children from diseases like #polio.
Young man:
Take it from someone who knows the importance of a father & the impact of losing one. Forgive your father for not playing his part as you think he ought to have. Enough with the accusations & belittling “If my father was rich, I won’t be suffering today” or “What was he doing when his mates were making money?”, it’s not like his father passed wealth to him & he wasted it
Once you start making money & have people depend on you for their survival, you’d know how hard a father’s role is. I believe fathers aren’t appreciated enough, a lot of them do embarrassing jobs, take disrespect from their bosses, work endlessly barely resting, just to make money to take care of their families
Even if your father is a poor man, still respect him. Know this, no man will be at peace with him being unable to provide for his home. He might not show it, but it eats him every single day. And don't think he's too lazy to think of plan or implement it, life happens, things don't always go according to plan. But know this, every father wishes to be a father his children would be proud of
That your father is a drunkard isn't a reason to disrespect him. Sometimes the only escape he has from thoughts of failing to live up to your expectations is through the bottle. Cut him slack, nothing stresses a man than the inability to give his children the world
Respect your father regardless of his status in society & his financial situation. You have to obey him. You have to love him. You must understand his life path & mistakes. You are a man, you will make mistakes as well. Respect him. Learn OR perish!!!
Davido making the headlines for cheating. How is that even news? A society that has made men to be useless without money wants them to be faithful when they are rich, it can't. The society that teaches a man that he doesnt deserve a woman for being broke has no business telling him to keep only one woman whe he becomes rich. Learn OR perish!!!