Javi

21 | Futuro Abogado 📚 I Real Zaragoza I Derecho/Criminologia I
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[Lirio @SwordOfLirio]

Vincularse honestamente con alguien requiere que le permitas errar seguido. Las expectativas puestas en que la otra persona es humana, y que a vos te gustaría un lugar dónde puedas equivocarte con tranquilidad.

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@Idiota_inconfor O incluso aguantar faltas de respeto de la familia, amigas, no poder expresarse libremente, se está bien sin depender emocionalmente de nadie.

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

Que feo, enterarse de mentiras que me ocultaron de mi última relación, que feo se siente...

[𝙄𝙘𝙮 ⛓ @Coldheartedmen_]

I still wonder if my ex ever sat down and thought about how much I tried to make things work before leaving me.

I wasn't perfect, but I showed up, made efforts, listened, and tried to fix things even when it wasn't easy. I genuinely wanted us to work.

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@MindHealthMaker My ex brought with her trauma from a previous relationship issues involving abuse and mistreatment. I understood, cared for, and accepted her, but there came a point in our relationship where talking becomes on accusing me of not trusting her and speaking to her in a unkind way😞

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@Luis_Oviedo A mí me dejaron hace 2 meses con la misma manera, por WhatsApp, pero eso habla más de la inmadurez y falta de responsabilidad de esa persona, y de la falta de huevos de decirlo a la cara, piensa que no era la persona indicada para ti, mucho ánimo!

[safadenha @ousafadenha]

Tudo o que eu aguentei para evitar que acabasse

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@ElegantePecado Así fui con mi exnovia, que de la ansiedad que tenía, conseguí que muchas veces se relajara y se durmiera en mis brazos, de que me sirvió? De nada.

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

The narcissist's family

A narcissist may speak negatively about you behind your back, influencing how their family sees and treats you. They often shape the story in their favour so that, when the relationship ends, their family blames you instead of questioning their behaviour.

[CD Tenerife 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 @CDTOficial]

Rotos de dolor, con un nudo en la garganta y sin poder creer que esto sea verdad, desde el CD Tenerife comunicamos el trágico fallecimiento, este martes, día 3 de noviembre de 2026, a las 8:00 horas, de Jesús de Miguel Alameda.

No hay palabras de consuelo; no hay absolutamente nada que mitigue este sentimiento repleto de tristeza. Estamos junto a su desolada familia, junto a sus seres queridos, junto a todo el tinerfeñismo que hoy llora por este cruel desenlace.

La familia de Jesús de Miguel agradece todas y cada una de las muestras de apoyo recibidas, e igualmente solicita, de corazón, máximo respeto a su privacidad, en estos terribles momentos.

🖤 DEP

[𝙄𝙘𝙮 ⛓ @Coldheartedmen_]

I met a girl who had been through a lot in her past, including childhood trauma and painful experiences. She told me about her broken trust, the people who had hurt her, and how difficult it was for her to feel safe with someone again. I knew she had been through a lot, so I stayed. I listened to her, reassured her, gave her patience, and tried my best to show her that not every man would treat her the way her past partners did.

I genuinely thought that with enough love, understanding, and emotional support, I could help her heal. But as time passed, I started experiencing repeated lies, cheating, and emotional pain myself. I kept making excuses for her behaviour because I knew what she had been through. I kept sacrificing my own peace while trying to protect hers.

[María Martín Ψ @psimariamartin]

El amor sano no consiste en encontrar a alguien que nunca te haga daño porque esto no existe. Nadie es igual a uno mismo y en el proceso de acoplar historias que son distintas surgen desencuentros, conflictos e incluso actos sin mala intención pero que hieren. Y una dinámica sana no surge cuando el otro es perfecto, sino con una persona que está dispuesta a asumir sus errores, romper patrones que en el vínculo no funcionan y a proteger la unión contigo pase lo que pase. No es conseguir que no ocurra nada incómodo o doloroso dentro de la relación, sino que el amor siempre quede intacto porque cuidarse esté por encima de todo

[Oshiogwe 🦁 @Oshiogwe1]

"His loss." Nah.
​You just fumbled a man who barely goes out, has two friends, has his priorities straight, and wanted nobody but you.
​Congratulations.
​
​He wasn't in the clubs.
​Wasn't chasing women. Wasn't collecting bodies. Wasn't keeping backups.
​His phone was dry because his loyalty wasn't for sale.
​
​Work. Gym. Home.
​Two close friends. One woman.
​His life looked boring to the streets because he was serious about his future.
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​He didn't need ten women validating him.
​Didn't need a roster.
Didn't need attention from strangers.
​He had options to chase.
He chose peace with you.
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​But consistency got boring.
Loyalty became ordinary.
​His attention became guaranteed.
​You got so comfortable being his priority that you forgot being chosen is a privilege.
​
​Now he's gone.
​And your friends are screaming "His loss, queen!" Of course they are.
​They don't have to date the men you're about to meet.

​The next guy might be exciting. Smooth. Popular. Always outside. Always surrounded by women.
​Congrats.
​You traded a man who wanted one woman for a man who knows how to entertain twenty.
​
​He wasn't perfect.
​He was private. Focused. Disciplined. Loyal.
​And when a man like that walks away, there's no meltdown, no begging, no revenge tour.
​He just removes you from the future he's building.
​
​"His loss." Keep telling yourself that.
​He lost a woman who didn't appreciate him.
​You lost a man who wasn't looking for anyone else.
​Not the same loss.

[rômulo @romirandsss]

o maior trauma que você pode causar é ter sido bom suficiente pra pessoa perceber meses depois que ninguém nunca vai entregar tudo que você entregou e que, quando sentir um vazio, lembrar que você estaria ali por ela e ela ESCOLHEU te deixar ir e agora não tem volta. nada supera o trauma do longo prazo

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@tiramisutoni She decided to leave when a boundary we had discussed before going on vacation was crossed. I asked her for an explanation, but she accused me of being harsh in the way I brought things up, and then she decided to break up with me. 2/2

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@tiramisutoni I was in a six-month relationship with a girl whom I loved with all my heart. I put up with disrespectful behavior from her parents and her friend, as well as some strange attitudes from her all because I had chosen her as the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with 1/2

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@emmyxtweets Relationships come to an end, and if you aren’t mentally strong, it can leave you in a very bad place. I’m going through that process right now. I’ve never suffered as much as I am now but you have to keep living and look toward the future.

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@DearS_o_n She comes with traumas, fears, depression and anxiety, guess what, she left me, after i helped her get past allt that shit she was dealing with

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@mikasagrada Com o tempo, percebe que isto não é amor. No meu caso, com a minha ex-namorada, eu suportei faltas de respeito constantes por parte dos pais dela, das amigas dela e até mesmo dela própria, tudo só porque eu estava apaixonado. Mas isso não é amor.

[Javi @JaviRZ02]

@miyarah_ Literalmente, borre 6 meses de chats de todos los días con mi expareja, pero a veces es necesario si quiero seguir adelante, es lo que hay.