Baltimore is going to give me some combination of the following: love, financial freedom, or the final push to move to Chicago. I’m hoping it’s the first two honestly, but if it’s the last two, I’m fine with that also. 😎
Had an insightful convo with my fellow virgos on sat. I really gave a million chances to someone who ain’t deserve more than one. Seeing the good in people can be damaging.
I had a dream last night that I tried to take all the memories and force them into an attic. They fought to escape, so I bolted and welded them in just to get some peace and sleep. Now that I’m awake, I can hear the bolts slipping out.
I actually agree with him. Whenever I go out on a date, I expect to at least pay for myself, unless someone explicitly states that they are paying for me. I am independent and have my own money, so I never expect anyone to do for me.
“I don’t pay on the first date, I don’t want this relationship to be based on me paying for things. I got a lot going on and I’d be really upset if I used my hard earned money and paid for this and never heard from you again…”
Also everyone for further context
She was never asked about sex she just brought it up.
She assumed i might get the idea so she set boundaries. And i assumed she thought i would pay so i set boundaries. 🤷♂️
Moral of the story is don’t expect sex or money from strangers
I will never understand people’s obsession with what two consenting adults do with their bodies. Why, as a straight man, are you so stuck on what he might or might not be doing with his dick? If ain’t going in you, it ain’t ya business homie.