Healing in your 30's hits differently. It's not just about journaling or meditating your way through the hard stuff. It's about sitting with your discomfort and finally facing the things you've been avoiding for years. It's learning to unlearn the stories you were told about who you should be and realising you get to decide who you actually are. It's messy. It's outgrowing people you thought would be in your life forever. It's choosing yourself, even when it means starting over. It's being honest about what you want and walking away, even when it's painful. But it's also freeing. It's laughing louder, crying harder, and feeling more at home in your own skin than you ever thought possible. It's the moment you realise you don't have to apologise for being you. You're not behind, you're not broken. You're healing. And this is exactly what BECOMING looks like.💓🤞🏽🎀
I'm naturally private. It takes me a long time to open up and share my thoughts, feelings and fears with others. So if I ever tell you something personal, it's not just words. It's me trusting you with a part of myself I don't usually share with everyone. It means you're special to me and I trust that you’ll respect my privacy and value the trust I've given you.
Once I realized a lot of people never gave a fuck about me and my well being it was easy for me detach from them and stop giving a fuck about them back
I don’t hate nobody… I just be indifferent
I’m the girl who can go from deep conversations about life goals to complete silence for hours… and I need someone who doesn’t freak out during the quiet parts.
Not every pause means I’m upset. Sometimes I’m just recharging, thinking, or simply existing.
If you can sit in the silence with me without turning it into drama, we might actually build something real.
HAVE YOU EVER MET SOMEONE and just paused like… so nobody ever sat you down and told you about yourself??
Nobody ADDRESSED this behavior?
Because you’re standing there wondering how someone this difficult still has friends and family, and nobody’s ever called it out.