I think the real issue is that many people don’t conceptualize having children as the life-altering responsibility. They treat it like a milestone or a default life event. Children are often had to fulfill emotional voids, meet societal expectations.
No one really tells you this: You can be deeply attracted to someone who isn’t emotionally compatible with your healing. So date based on your self respect, not your longing. You can feel drawn to someone who triggers all your childhood instincts.
They Wanna Be The Only Ones Who Can Mock Deaths. They Wanna Be The ONLY Ones Who Can Be Racist. They Wanna Be The Only Ones Who Has Freedom Of Speech. They Wanna Be The Only Ones Who Has Rights! They Wanna Be The Only Ones Who Can Do Anything!!! THE END!!