@kalu_rose20004 100% agree and more people need to understand that. Physical attraction matters and is incredibly important but it’s not the most important thing either and will not sustain the relationship if the things that influence comfort, connect and compatibility are not there.
@Tvchukwu That’s pretty much my thinking. Attraction is the physical aspect but personality heavily influences the comfort, connection and compatibility aspect which is also very important (arguably more important than the attraction aspect). A relationship without both makes 0 sense.
@MrMekzy_ I completely agree. Reading other people say otherwise makes me think I’m crazy. But to put all of this belief in the perspective that you need to convince someone to give you a chance and to do xyz to make attraction appear from nothing is mind blowing and anxiety-inducing.
@orxsco I guess we need to define what effort is? You’re absolutely right in that a man just going up to a woman and professing his attraction for her isn’t enough at all. She needs to get to know him first. But at the same time, there’s hopefully some mutual attraction there as well.
@SeduceCleopatra Too much game playing/hot and cold behavior. If you believe that running a situation with someone like this is the best way to go about dating, then it’s just you carrying the baggage of failed relationships forward. Some tension is ok cause passiveness isn’t attractive either.
@BigMama4440@LordMasonx@Omakadii I think what the other guy is trying to say is that going into a dating situation with the belief in mind that the woman will eventually become attracted to the man simply because of his personality over time is not the smartest route to take because attraction isn’t guaranteed.
@purplejola I think you hit on a very solid point. Women most likely won’t be interested enough in a man until she gets to know a man. It’s not necessarily about the man convincing you to give him a chance but that you just realized that physical attraction isn’t enough on its own.
@wuzguchi714@JoFromSWPhilly@MLFootball Exactly my point from my comment. The dudes in here crying the blues are the same ones in the feedle position at their parent’s house the moment a woman tells them that they aren’t interested in them and don’t like them back.
@MLFootball And right on que the incels are out in the comments criticizing her for speaking facts. If the chick isn’t interested, move the fuck on. Stop crying about rejection, get off your hands and knees for a change, and try again with someone else.
@theADHDlens@ARCRaidersNews That’s my thinking. Plus with all of the dups still potentially hoarding all of their fully modded Bobcats the best thing for Embark to do (if they indeed have a legitimate fix for cheaters and dupers) is to do a full wipe and start this October update as a 2.0 release.
@jt0hny Because these dudes are desperate and will hold out for any woman who gives him even a sliver of attention because he believes that attention is rare and buys in to the scarcity bullshit of 80/20 and other things that make it out that most men are scrambling for scraps.
@DexertoMike@BigRob That’s pretty much my take. The tweets are from 2017 when he also came forward with the video that he cheated on his wife.
He should have just came out as Guy and said that in 2017 he let his fame get the best of him and he’s spent the past decade making up for it and apologize