they stopped blaming their parents. their ex. their childhood. not because none of it hurt, but because they figured out they're the only one who can fix it now. the day you own your part is the day you get your power back.
Saturday is the only real weekend day. Friday is still a whole workday, and Sunday is basically Monday’s waiting room. We’ve been scammeď, tricked, hoodwinked, misled, and deceived!
men are becoming too content with being useless. you can't fix shit, can't build shit, don't pay for shit, can't plan any dates.
what are you really here for??
ladies, until that man expresses his desire to pursue you, he is the homie. Nothing more. So don’t allow your fantasies to build false hope. Stop emotionally committing yourself to a man who hasn’t verbally expressed his intentions to emotionally commit to YOU.
in the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girls asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
I’LL SAY IT AGAIN:
If your job requires a college degree, you should be able to write off your student loan payments as a business expense the way CEOs write off their private jets and yachts for their jobs which require neither.
My love story will not be a story of my man cheating and mistreating me and finally coming to his senses and proposing to me years later😭 Bro I be feeling so sorry hearing those stories from women.
Please INVEST IN YOUR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get your hair and nails done. You look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat you better, life gets better.