People will ghost and stonewall you, discard you like you meant nothing to them, get with people behind your back, feel shameful, accuse you of never loving them, obsessively monitor your socials, contact a bunch of people they're suspicious of and then call you the narcissist.
In relationships women are reciprocators, not initiators. You lead, she follows. You put in effort, she returns it. You make her feel good, she mirrors it. Thatโs the only way it works.