cancer surgeon: Unfortunately your lobular breast cancer is involving most of your breast and you need a mastectomy.
Patient: I think I’d like to remove both
Her husband: Can we go bigger with the reconstruction? you know I’ve always wanted you to be bigger, babe.
Me to my patient: What do YOU want?
Patient: I’d like to look the way I look now.
Her body, her choice. Not her husband’s.
For the record if your husband has “always wanted” some surgical alteration to your body , the surgery you need is a husbandectomy.
@RogueDravidian we used have moral science class in private schools. ippo iruka nu therila. time waste padikatum nu angayum thookitaanglaa nu therila. indian society is doomed. TN paravalai nu irundhuchu ippo paapom innum 5 years iruku(according to the supporters)
mind you, they had no problems watching chopped uncles playing college students and romancing actresses half their ages but this is where they draw the line
"How to kill a woman without leaving a trace" was googled 163 million times in 2025. But it's okay let's talk about alimony and the male loneliness epidemic.
The attempt to sabotage a photographer’s chances ended up creating the most memorable image of his career.
Everyone at the regional zoo photography competition knew he was the favorite. Year after year, his elephant photographs stood out, and he had earned a reputation for being one of the friendliest people there, always gracious even when others hoped someone else would finally take the top prize.
So when a zoo insider quietly helped a competing friend, they thought they had found the perfect way to stop him. He was assigned the worst elephant viewing slot of the day, a time when the elephants were usually resting and inactive. Since his winning images often showcased their strength, movement, and personality, it seemed like a guaranteed disadvantage. He realized exactly what was happening, but instead of arguing or complaining, he simply picked up his camera and headed in as if nothing had changed.
When he arrived, he found an elephant peacefully resting among a pile of old tires, completely still, with a small butterfly perched on its trunk. Rather than trying to force a dramatic shot, he patiently waited. Moments later, the elephant opened its eyes and awkwardly crossed them to look at the butterfly sitting inches from its face.
The result was one of the funniest and most unexpected wildlife photographs anyone at the event had ever seen. 😂
The image went on to win the competition and quickly spread far beyond it, becoming a reminder that sometimes the obstacle meant to hold you back ends up leading directly to your greatest opportunity.
Because the actress would be safe with her personal security 24x7 meanwhile its the regular women who have to bear consequences of such filth being delivered to masses. They cant relate how an actual poor/middle class woman lives with their exaggerated portrayals for cheap fame
Let me say one thing clearly before anything else. Women should study. There is no debate in my heart about that. An educated woman is a woman with choices, and choices are her right.
So when people ask why fewer children are being born in India today, I do not blame women. I want to be honest about where the real weight of this sits.
Yes, the cost of living has risen. To raise a child well now you need money, good healthcare, schooling, security. All of this is real, and it presses on every young couple.
But underneath the economics there is something older.
For hundreds of years, maybe longer, our society dominated and suppressed women. We took them for granted.
That suppression did not simply vanish. It settled into the muscle memory of generations.
And what is held down for too long comes back, in our time, as friction. Some call it ego. I would call it the natural recoil of people who were kept small for too long.
Think of the man who earns while his wife does not, and who says, “I feed you, so you will listen to me.”
He does not see her as his partner. He sees her as someone who owes him obedience.
That is the wound.
And a woman who has felt it, or watched her mother feel it, will naturally want to stand on her own feet so no one can ever speak to her that way again. Who can blame her?